Been with my DP for 5 years. I have 2 teenagers, with ASD (not his)
We now live together. He spends all his time gaming. Works for a week (self employed) then has weeks off. Makes excuses not to work, so he can play consoles ie job too far, no parking, not paying him enough, work conditions etc, etc.
He games, sometimes even waking me up at weekends at 5.30am or into the evenings talking on a headset. He literally comes downstairs to eat, even then sits on his phone, checking gaming forums. No conversation.
He says he is ‘bored’, which is why he does what he does. I am ‘boring’ and always watching crap on TV (because I’m always alone downstairs!) I talk he doesn’t even hear me, he is checking forums!! Ask him what does he think of dinner (convo starter) and my conversation is boring!
Today (after not going to work) I came home from shopping. Shouted upstairs Id cooked a breakfast. He came down an hour later (I refuse to take food upstairs now) and went into one about how he thought I had asked him did he want breakfast, not that it was ready (now cold). It’s my fault, I should ask, not just make something!
He refuses to apologise or take any responsibility. I’ve told him to F off and go live in a hotel, which is how he treats our home and me.
I don’t want to break up my family. But I’m sick of it. AIBU to LTB?