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To wonder if a quick flash of boob is going to hurt anyone?

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Thisnamechanger · 13/05/2018 14:30

Me and DP surf he surf's, I'm completely shit so this means we spend a lot of time getting changed in beach car parks.

I was thinking today... WIBU to stop struggling to cover my boobs when changing and just quickly whip my top off and pop my bra back on in the car park?

I wear a high necked top under my wetsuit and struggling out the wettie and the top under a changing robe then trying to get a bra on with really achey biceps is a bloody faff and takes ages and usually results in a lot of swearing. I also sometimes need DPs help to pull the shoulders of my wetsuit down which makes covering up really hard.

As I was struggling today and saw DP quickly amd easily yank down the top half of his wetsuit I thought maybe I should just do the same in future.

What do we think?

OP posts:
Lazyi · 13/05/2018 21:17

It’s fine...

Booboobooboo84 · 13/05/2018 21:19

I have a robin for this but I bought a ridiculously big one so it’s like a towel tent on me basically. When the heating went a few months ago I basically lived in it there’s that much fabric 😂

Booboobooboo84 · 13/05/2018 21:19

Robie not a small red breasted bird 😂 but yeah whip them out if you want. If people choose to be offended that’s more about them than you.

edwinbear · 13/05/2018 21:19

sprinkles first relay last September, now going for the solo in 2019 Grin

Sprinklesinmyelbow · 13/05/2018 21:22

Good luck, that sounds amazing. What a fabulous accomplishment!

ASqueakingInTheShrubbery · 13/05/2018 21:23

Do it leaning into the boot? All that nosey passers-by will see is naked back, unless they really concentrate.

OfaFrenchmind2 · 13/05/2018 21:33

Boobs are fine, seriously. Nobody that matters would be offended by that. We repeat at neauseam on this website and elsewhere that BFing in public is fine, so should be being able to change quickly in confort close to the beach!

Oh, and congrats on the perkies! 😁

DrWhy · 13/05/2018 21:37

I’m afraid I’d go with a swimming costume, bikini top or bra under the rash vest, whatever style you find most comfy. Then wetsuit and rash vest off, changing towel on and then bra/cossie off t-shirt on. I spent a lot of time getting in and out of wetsuits (and drysuits) when diving and was never too bothered but our club then asked us to be more careful about covering up as they’d had complaints.

Blobbyweeble · 13/05/2018 21:40

Just go for it. Well mannered people don’t stare at other people getting changed by the beach, that really would be common.Grin

GladAllOver · 13/05/2018 21:59

our club then asked us to be more careful about covering up as they’d had complaints.
Your club should have told the complainants to fuck off and bother someone else.

stopfuckingshoutingatme · 13/05/2018 22:00

I frankly couldn't give a monkey's, but I wonder if people would be so blase about a bloke changing and flashing his penis as their kids walked past

It’s not really the same thing there Smile

Branleuse · 13/05/2018 22:08

i think if a bloke was discreetly getting changed on the beach and I or any of my family caught a quick glimpse accidently then that would be no problem. Its hardly flashing.

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