Bluelonerose
Having an abortion is awful.
However once you have had an abortion, you only have that experience of what happened.
Sometimes I think that once someone has had an abortion, they don't consider what would have happened if they had gone through with the pregnancy.
It is almost as if they imagine that having the child would have been all positive and everything would have worked out for the best.
The lady in the article could have not had the abortion and brought up three boys, still longing for a daughter and may have really struggled.
Thing is when we talk about the downsides of abortion, people sometimes forget that the alternative may not have worked out any better or may have been far worse.
I know I have written this quite clumsily but I hope it makes sense.