To be upset at this

[kezzy13]

Dh told me last night that one of his friends called me fat and ugly.
Came out with it completely out of the blue. I don't mind the friends opinion because that is in fact my own opinion of myself, but I don't understand why dh felt the need to tell me?

Aibu?

He's given you the opportunity to meet the person who will treat you with love and respect.

I don't disagree with your new version of 'DH'.

I don’t know what to say how awful

Your husband is a feeder and that is a form of abuse.

I think your husband and his friends are cruel,shitty wankers, feel free to tell them

If he has not already ask your GP to refer you to a dietician. It really worked for me and it is free.

Revenge diet. Look after yourself. X

I actually think I love you all

Just remember the best revenge is indifference.

Only speak about the divorce, give no shits on how he is or what he is doing.

Good luck

Well darling, you’ve just lost a massive amount of weight that’s obviously been holding you back! (that D.H!) What a knob head he turned out to be! I hope that this is the start of your “Happily Ever After!”

Oh Jesus bin him. This is a classic psychological technique. Making someone feel they are worthless and nobody else would have them to encourage them to stay in a toxic abusive relationship.