For griping that dh gets more sleep on his mights with ds than i do?

[SueBaroo]

We alternate nights for looking after ds 3months. He's still waking up at night for me, and I'm exhausted, but every night that Dh has, ds sleeps through. Dh can't understand why I'm still tired, and keeps saying how well ds is doing and that dh isn't tired at all. grr.

Would it not be fairer for you each to have ds with you until he has woken in the night and then switch over for the next night so that the person who has just had a broken nights sleep is then guranteed a good nights sleep.

If ds sleeps through for your dh 3 nights in a row, a) I'd be amazed and b) you'd really get to stock up on sleep reserves.

that is a good call, I'll have a word.

grrrrr speaks wise words.