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Have I fucked up?

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Gemeeny · 19/04/2018 21:43

My SIL is pregnant, she's the first of my siblings / siblings' partners to be so.

I was watching Hospital and there was an amazing story about a woman who was in hospital thinking she was having a miscarriage but she gave birth to her very premature baby on her own in the bathroom (the baby was fine in the end).

I texted the whatsapp group with my siblings and their partners about it because it was such an amazing story but now I am panicking because I'm worried it was a really insensitive thing to do given that my SIL is pregnant? I feel really stupid because I wasn't evening thinking.

The reason I am worried is she has now left that group with no comment or explanation which is really weird for her and I am terrified I've offended her.

Have I fucked up? If so what do I do?

OP posts:
bonbonlavie · 20/04/2018 09:41

happygummibear

Having not seen the programme, I've gone with the OP's description which states miscarriage.

I still think sending it to someone newly pregnant is odd

TodayImThisName · 20/04/2018 09:44

bonbonlavie. There is a big difference between sending a link about miscarriage to someone who is pregnant and commenting in a group chat about an (amazing) TV show which showed a very prem baby.

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