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To think landlady should give a bit more notice?

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jamoncrumpets · 11/04/2018 20:10

Our new landlady has just texted saying she wants to 'pop over' and meet me and DH this weekend. I suggested Sunday (so I can have Saturday to clean!) and asked what time would suit her to visit. She's texted back saying she has a few things to do while she's down here and will call me when she's on her way over.

AIBU to ask for a more specific time? We don't want to spend half of our weekend waiting for her. Is she being a bit of a CF?

OP posts:
dementedpixie · 11/04/2018 20:12

Maybe message back that she needs to give a time as you might be out

Ilove · 11/04/2018 20:12

No

She only needs to give you 24h notice

Today is Weds...

Nomorechickens · 11/04/2018 20:13

Yes, ask her for a 1 hour timeslot as you want to make sure you are in when she calls and you are quite busy that day

dementedpixie · 11/04/2018 20:13

She can't force the OP to wait in all day though. OP doesn't need to agree to the visit either

jamoncrumpets · 11/04/2018 20:13

I'm happy for her to visit. I would just like to know a time so I'm not potentially waiting in for her all day.

OP posts:
HagueBlue2018 · 11/04/2018 20:14

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lalalalyra · 11/04/2018 20:15

She only needs to give you 24h notice

Nonsense. That's for essential things like emergency repairs. Not for the LL to 'pop round' for a chat.

I'd ask her for a window OP. Tell her you have plans and you'd hate for her to get there and get no answer at the door.

jamoncrumpets · 11/04/2018 20:17

Ok, I think I'll msg her on Sat and see what time she's thinking of coming. If she can't give me a definite answer I'll tell her we've got jobs to do and can't guarantee that we'll be in.

OP posts:
Shizzlestix · 11/04/2018 20:44

Definitely pin her down, I wouldn’t dream of making my tenants wait round wondering what bloody time I was turning up! They have lives!

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