Thank you to Northern and Buzz for jumping in with a little sense. 
Bewilderness my last post was in response to this comment:
I understand that a lot of people think being judged, whether you asked their opinion or not, is a compliment.
I simply disagree.
Your post states that you don’t think any comment on someone’s physical presentation is a compliment.
We all make judgements about other people appearance all the time it’s disingenuous to suggest that we don’t.
Some of those judgements might be “he looks dodgy I’ll cross the road/sit somewhere else” and others might be “Bewilderness looks really great today, that new hair style really suits her”.
Judgement of our fellow human beings is natural and constant - you do it without thinking about it.
I see nothing wrong with a man whispering to his girlfriend that she’s prettier than anyone else. I’ve done just the same to my DH.
I tell my friends, my Mum, my siblings, my MIL etc when they look especially nice. That’s a “judgement” too.
And yes, I tell my children that they are gorgeous/wonderful/lovely on a regular basis. It’s pretty normal.
I may even have also told them they are eg the prettiest girl/most handsome boy in the room on occasion.
And if anyone overheard that bit of parental confidence building, even another child, I would be utterly stunned if they were offended.
Because it’s a completely normal and ordinary thing to say.
But no, to put you mind at rest I don’t line my children up and carry out a detailed and soul destroying comparison of their attributes. 
Don’t be so silly.