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To think that social services wouldn't give a shit about this

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NameChangeThread · 07/04/2018 15:39

DS has napped in the pram outside since birth. Always wrapped up and dressed appropriately and either a rain cover or net over the pram depending on weather. Garden has 6ft fences and a bolted gate. Window is always cracked open so I can hear him cry, in summer the back door is wide open and I'm sat out with him anyway. I check on him regularly. And I am fully aware that this is a very 'old fashioned' thing to do, however I like DC to get plenty of fresh air and sunlight, and he naps a lot better outside.

A neighbour from the next street (her back garden is opposite to mine) has just come and knocked on my door and said how dangerous it is to leave a baby outside by themselves. I said I am completely okay with leaving him outside to nap and I have no worries that he could be hurt in any way so she doesn't need to worry. She told me I 'had to do something about it' or she would 'report me'. I told her that I doubted SS would be bothered about this, and she said they definitely would as it is child neglect and abuse?

I honestly cannot think of any rational (or likely) situation which could happen that would cause him any harm by doing this. If anything it is beneficial to him (and me). Because he gets a decent nap, sunlight and plenty of fresh air and I get a bit of peace and quite, and just enough time to regain my sanity!! I cannot be the only person who still does this surely? I know it happens a lot in other countries but it can't have just stopped happening in the UK?

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mummabearfoyrbabybears · 08/04/2018 13:33

Prams even! They didn't nap on giant seafood.

UndomesticHousewife · 08/04/2018 13:39

Everyone does this in Scandinavia even in cold weather like -20!

Anatidae · 08/04/2018 13:40

You have passed the Anatidae Judgey Pants Test zibbi - as long as those aren’t BBQ rib flavour crisps you’re in the clear. ;)

My table is where your TV is, and I’ve spent many a nap time with a cuppa just watching the trees and the pram.

We have forest (proper wild forest) out the back and no fences so I do always have some mild eagle/lynx/moose paranoia.... an eagle once swooped on us in the fields near the house - we joked it was scoping out DS (then we put the hood up and watched the skies...)

ZibbidooZibbidooZibbidoo · 08/04/2018 13:56

Thanks anitadae. I will now point out that my “baby” is almost 9 years old and isn’t so keen on naps in the pram anymore Grin so this is all irrelevant to me. I don’t know why I’m on this thread.

an eagle once swooped on us in the fields near the house - we joked it was scoping out DS

Shock umm, yes that’s just a tad scary!!

Olddear · 08/04/2018 14:00

Well, I'm old and we were always put outside in our prams, gardens, outside shops etc. Our neighbour used to shout into my mum that she was 'going up the street, I'll take xxxx with me' and she'd wheel me off! Every shop had a pram outside it and if the baby was crying someone would always talk to the baby or rock the pram....never see that now.

Anatidae · 08/04/2018 14:15

i don’t know why I’m on this thread.

I came for the argument but I stayed for the diagrams... Grin

Idontdowindows · 08/04/2018 14:19

I came for the argument but I stayed for the diagrams...

There are diagrams??? Shock

ZibbidooZibbidooZibbidoo · 08/04/2018 14:19
Grin
koyaanisqatsi · 08/04/2018 14:25

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lynmilne65 · 08/04/2018 15:24

Indeed knitted !

SinceWhenDid · 08/04/2018 20:03

@Anatidae that's reminded me I had a lovely cocoon for mine in the pram.

Shock at fox/dog story. Make sense.

Natsku · 09/04/2018 03:47

Natsku have you ever sat in a car in winter without the heating on? Probably warmer than a pram given that it's got a roof but bloody cold, even with blankets

If I was in a car inside a giant insulated sleeping bag, snowsuit, warm clothes, hat and gloves and woolly socks, on top of a thick soft sheepskin, I bet I'd feel pretty warm. I check how warm baby is by touching his neck, always lovely and warm.

anatidae I lived in the middle of a massive forest when my daughter was a baby napping outside and slightly worried about elk too (and wolves, there were rumours of a small pack of wolves in that forest but we saw no sign of them) so I always had her pram outside the lounge window where I could keep an eye on her the whole time. No such worries this time though, no elk or wolves or giant birds of prey in my estate!

ethelfleda · 09/04/2018 13:41

Thanks for this thread. Thanks to all of you lot I am sitting in the garden eating my lunch with two free hands while DS naps in his pram. It's amazing. This hasn't happened for a long time!

And I did pop in to the kitchen to potter a bit but he seems fine Smile

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