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To be upset with my sisters attitude?

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ZebraSkins · 06/04/2018 10:04

Hello. I'm new please be nice!
I was in a relationship the whole time I was in Uni. After uni we drifted and split. He moved to other side of the country and we stayed loosely in touch. We have mutual friends so I've seen him about once or twice a year since.

Just before Christmas we were on a uni reunion night out and we slept together. We were texting everyday over the Christmas and agreed to meet up in the new year. Then on New Year's Day I found out I was 7 weeks pregnant with my exs baby. I told him and since then we've been together. I'm currently 24 weeks pregnant and he's attended every scan with me and midwife appointments. He still lives two hours away but is making plans to move here to be with me and the baby.

I told my sister this and she told me I'm stupid and it will never work. She told me I'm unrelatistic and he won't want me after the baby is born.

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ZebraSkins · 06/04/2018 21:34

Thanks cardinal . I appreciate it's not a usual situation and we do need to iron out finer details. My bf is looking at renting a flat nearby for six months so he can be nearby but not move in until we're ready. He's been very supportive in every way

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RepealMay25th · 06/04/2018 21:38

If your sister can't be honest with you then who can? Better for you that you know people are going to be raising eyebrows all over the place.

ZebraSkins · 06/04/2018 23:04

I expected some support from my sister that's all not to be told I'm stupid. I'm not really concerned about the opinions of others

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