DH's brother moved away with his family, a good 3hrs drive from the area in which we and all of our parents and other family live. AIBU to expect him to drive home with his family on holidays instead of expecting us to take turns driving to them? I'm absolutely fed up with every other holiday being ruined with a 3hr drive each way. We're leaving at 9am to drive there for lunch and will have to drive all the way back tonight. They're the ones who chose to move away so surely they should shoulder the inconvenience of having to travel to spend holidays with family?