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Serviettes. Did I ask for something strange?

387 replies

ALongHardWinter · 30/03/2018 20:10

There were no serviettes on the stand for sauces,straws etc so I asked the server for some. He gave me a funny look and said 'Some what?' I repeated my request but he still looked blank. So I said 'Tissues?'. He said 'Oh right. I've never heard them called serviettes'. Really? That's what I've always called them. Anyone else encountered a blank look when asking for a supposedly common place item?

OP posts:
frasier · 30/03/2018 20:11

Napkins!

Firesuit · 30/03/2018 20:12

Paper napkins.

MrsBungle · 30/03/2018 20:13

Napkins!

SweetMoon · 30/03/2018 20:13

Were you in the uk? Was the server from somewhere other than the uk do you think?

MrsEricBana · 30/03/2018 20:13

Yep napkins.

booellesmum · 30/03/2018 20:13

We've always called them serviettes.

ALongHardWinter · 30/03/2018 20:13

Oh! I've always associated the word 'napkins' with the linen ones you get in restaurants!

OP posts:
PeerieBreeks · 30/03/2018 20:13

I think serviettes as a team isn't really used as much as it used to be.

SweetMoon · 30/03/2018 20:14

Napkins are American! Perhaps he was American?

PeerieBreeks · 30/03/2018 20:14

Term*

Firesuit · 30/03/2018 20:14

A quick google shows that some UK web sites selling them do also call them serviettes, so you weren't wrong. (Not sure if there are any sites only using that word.)

VodkaRusschian · 30/03/2018 20:14

Yup, napkins

chickenowner · 30/03/2018 20:14

Serviettes sounds really old fashioned to me.

ALongHardWinter · 30/03/2018 20:15

Yes I was in the UK. The server was Asian,I think but spoke perfect English.

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MeanTangerine · 30/03/2018 20:15

According to Nancy Mitford (who died in 1973, so perhaps not the most up to date authority) saying "serviette" is non-U, or not upper class. "Napkin" is the U term.

I would've thought 99.9% of habitual English speakers would know what both words meant, though.

I did once have someone look at me funny in the supermarket when I asked where the courgettes were

Laiste · 30/03/2018 20:16

Napkin is the word i would use.

(i'm reading it so many times in one place it's losing its meaning Grin)

napkinnapkinnapkin

SweetMoon · 30/03/2018 20:16

I've always called them serviette too. I'm not that old, I don't think! Grin

BarbaraofSevillle · 30/03/2018 20:16

No matter what you call them personally, it's common knowledge that those items are serviettes, napkins or tissues interchangeably.

LoremIpsumMum · 30/03/2018 20:17

FWIW, Debrett's says "napkins", never "serviettes".

welshsoph · 30/03/2018 20:18

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Vitalogy · 30/03/2018 20:18

I don't think the young uns will have heard of it. I remember my mum and dad saying it, so I'd have known what you meant OP.

Laiste · 30/03/2018 20:18

See now for me a tissue is only a blow your nose kind of thing.

OfDragonsDeep · 30/03/2018 20:18

I would always call the paper ones serviettes and the linen ones napkins.

RaininSummer · 30/03/2018 20:19

I have never called them napkins always serviettes. Napkins makes me think of nappies or are we saying diapers now.

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