It's dds first birthday today and I've done everything down to making the cake buying the present, wrapping the present and making special tea. I brought her and her brother to a playcentre. My husband promised me he'd get the train at 5 to be home for 6 to see her open her presents and have some cake with her. He rings me now at 6 to say he missed the train at 5 and wouldn't be home until 7:15 now. Why ring at the time your expected home at when I've had dinner ready for that time. Dd is tired and starting to get grouchy. Her usual bedtime is 7. I just feel very deflated about DH not making more of an effort for her birthday especially her first. I know she doesn't really get what's going on but I still wanted to celebrate it with and mark the occasion. AIBU