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To think this is no way to punish a child!

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Justalittlelemondrizzle · 12/03/2018 16:18

Neighbours arrived home. Dad shouting and swearing at 7yo lad. Don't know what he's done obvs. They went in house where their neighbour heard banging before the crying 7 yo is thrown out of the house and the door is locked. He's knocked on the door about 10 times. It's raining so he keeps going under a shelter in the garden as he doesn't even have a coat on.
Dads just come out to take football off him before going back in the house and locking the door so the kid is now playing with rocks. He's been out there 40 minutes now 😒 surely this isn't normal behaviour?

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Makingworkwork · 12/03/2018 16:20

Call 111. It is cold and the child’s immediate needs are not been meet. The police will obviously contact ss but only the police can immediately become involved.

gussyfinknottle · 12/03/2018 16:20

Of course not.

Dontoutmenow · 12/03/2018 16:20

Ring the police.

WhitePhantom · 12/03/2018 16:21

That's no way to punish a child, no matter what he's done. I'd be tempted to bring him in to mine and make sure he's ok, if you know him. Probably not a good idea though depending on what the parents might do next, but if hate to see the poor little lad left out in the rain like that 🙁

CoffeeChocolateWine · 12/03/2018 16:21

Bloody hell. Poor kid. I would call 111 too. This has made me really sad.

JoJoSM2 · 12/03/2018 16:22

What a psycho. It should be easy enough to find a number for local social services and report it.

AvoidingDM · 12/03/2018 16:22

That's cruel. I'd agree with phoning somebody- what's going on inside the house if they are happy to throw him out in the rain

ILoveAntButHateDec · 12/03/2018 16:22

Call 101 and ask for police advice and assistance.

DalekDalekDalek · 12/03/2018 16:23

111 definitely. Poor child!

forcryinoutloud · 12/03/2018 16:24

Out for 40 mins in pouring rain and no coat, that' s bad. If you don't feel you can approach them in any way or offer the lad some shelter then I would be contacting non emergency police number.

YouTheCat · 12/03/2018 16:24

It's 101, not 111.

I'd call and ask for advice.

LittleMyLikesSnuffkin · 12/03/2018 16:24

I’d ring the police too. That’s so horribly cruel. I know someone who’s stepdad did similar. It was only the tip of the iceberg of how bad things were.

Joskar · 12/03/2018 16:25

I have friends who put their 4 year old outside when he's naughty. They were telling a "funny" story about him calling in through the letterbox that he was scared of the dark and monsters might get him. My heart broke a wee bit at the thought of that. I once leant them a book with gentler discipline methods. I don't think they read it though. It wouldn't be my choice of discipline but you can't get involved unless a child is actually being abused.

QueenDramaLlama · 12/03/2018 16:25

Yes call a non emergency number. Locked out with no coat is not on and children need people to stand up for them.

YouTheCat · 12/03/2018 16:26

Joskar, that is abuse.

Toast3 · 12/03/2018 16:26

That’s so sad. Please call 111. That poor kid 😢

Tainbri · 12/03/2018 16:27

Jesus no! Phone police! There was a story last year of a little boy being locked outside admittedly in freezing cold and he died! What the hell else goes on that you're not aware of!

Osopolar · 12/03/2018 16:27

Please call 101 the child is being abused.

Trinity66 · 12/03/2018 16:27

That sounds horrendous poor kid :(

ColourfulOrangex · 12/03/2018 16:29

Oh poor boy, is he still out there?

Justalittlelemondrizzle · 12/03/2018 16:30

I think they've just let him in. No obvious signs of abuse but like you say. This could be the top of the ice berg. If this is what they're willing to possibly let people see. What is going on behind closed doors!?

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Justalittlelemondrizzle · 12/03/2018 16:30

Tip*

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ColourfulOrangex · 12/03/2018 16:31

It maybe worth raising it just in case, at least then you have the boys well-being in mind even if there is no concerns in SS mind

Osopolar · 12/03/2018 16:32

Please still report this.

user1499786242 · 12/03/2018 16:35

That's horrific! Speechless

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