Hi
Just after some advice to see if I’m being unreasonable
Been with my girlfriend for 6 years, she has two kids 7&10. We are moving in together next June.
She divorced her husband after he left her when she was 3 months pregnant with her 2nd child, both her kids are his.
He was having an affair with his secretary at his Job (selling women’s beauty products or at least managing a team who sell them). Unsure if this was his first fling as he travelled with ‘business’ a lot but he’s now married her and they live an hour away. He sees his kids now he’s settled, initially he wouldn’t see the kids and there was a time access was stopped after he walloped the eldest when he was around 3 years old in a McDonald’s car park, she wouldn’t let him see them till he sorted himself out.
He’s treated her appallingly so I have little time for him but he’s the kids dad so we are civil, she said they did love each once and were happily married until she found out about his affair, she also caught him messaging women on Facebook late at night.
Anyway, my partner keeps photo albums, two in the kids rooms of baby photos of the first born, none of the 2nd born, in the album are several photos of her ex, with her first born, loads of pics of her first born by himself too, so not sure why she’d keep the pics of her ex.
Also she has another album on display In the book case, this is old pics etc but loads of pics of her ex husband by himself and loads of her and the ex together, on holidays, general pics we all take day to day.
Am I being unreasonable to question why she’s kept such photos of a man who cheated on her (at least once she can prove)?
I’m in no way threatened nor jealous of course, just find it odd she’s kept pics and was wondering if I’m in the minority here, after everything he did to her.
She says she’s kept the pics for her kids when they are older, he will have pics himself anyway?
Thanks