So we have been in a new house for a few days. Surprised the in laws - not just parents - gave us this much time to settle in given they arrived within an hour of returning home with DS - but they came over today en mass. Two hours and every drawer was opened in every room and a few comments were made all round about how they will use certain rooms when they are next over. They know I like my space so just announcing ‘I will do this’ seems to me a bit crass. However, i know I am pretty sensitive. Is it with cause or do I need to just get a grip?