We have 3 dds. Two who need a little extra support. All 3 now at school.
Dh works regular Monday to Friday in an office environment. He comes home and us able to relax. At weekends he also does very little grunt work or childcare.
I have a small self employment and a small part time job. I am also studying about 6 hours per week.
I do have some free time during the day in the week but I still do all the housework and childcare around my employment.
I am becoming increasing Fed up with certain people (Not dh) having digs about me being a lady of leisure or saying you can do x as you don't work. Well bewsflash I do work but my work is flexible.
Realistically , for health reasons dh would be unable to do much more to help around the house so I feel this is fair.
Aibu to tell these people that actually I do work.