Was this abuse?

[MamaBearsBoys]

When I was 13/14 I had sex with a friends dad. I just to go for sleepovers and creep downstairs when she was sleeping. I was a child yet fully compliant and knew what I was doing was wrong. But now I think he obviously groomed me and was/is a peadophile. What do I do? Forget it and leave it as I was complicit or report it and upset my parents.

this kind of thing reminds me of Jimmy Savile and that girl who ran off with her teacher. same kind of scenario. grooming and abuse.

That’s the problem, if my parents were affected it would have been fine

Were not affected!!

He was having sex with his daughter's underage friend? Classy guy. However much you consented, he was very wrong to take advantage of that. If you were my daughter I'd report him, to protect other young girls. I bet you weren't the first young teenager he slept with.

Goodness op, I'm so Sorry I posted on your thread last night. I was being a total twat. Glad to see you have had some constructive responses and hope you find the answers you are looking for.

What did you think was wrong... Because you were underage or because he was your friend's dad? Or because he was married?

Yes what he did was wrong and he should be punished /stopped

What do you mean, you never consented to the end game?