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It's My Bad

101 replies

Only1scoop · 25/01/2018 20:17

Angry

I detest this saying

I don't think IABU

Ggrrrrrr

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girlandboy · 25/01/2018 21:34

Apparently I said the wrong thing the other day while looking out of the window, and pronouncing that it looked really dank out.

Queue loads of laughter from my offspring at my apparent misuse of the word "dank" Confused

m0therofdragons · 25/01/2018 21:35

Dh says this and I hate it. He's nearly 40 ffs! Dds have started copying. Makes me rage. Also "so"
But I find that contagious and find myself saying.

halfwitpicker · 25/01/2018 21:35

I hate it too

HolgerDanske · 25/01/2018 21:36

Nothing, but nothing, comes close to the rage I feel when I hear the term ‘reaching out’. No you did not fucking ‘reach out’!! You approached a colleague or a client or an entity and asked them something or told them something.

Bad enough when it’s said by an American. If it’s said by anyone in the UK or on a UK based show or even on an American show but by a purportedly English or British person, it just fills me with utter, utter rage. STOP. IT.

Only1scoop · 25/01/2018 21:37

'Don't go on too long'Grin

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halfwitpicker · 25/01/2018 21:37

Chintzy is fine though

Used to be a character in the Wishing Chair

Only1scoop · 25/01/2018 21:37

Soz

Wrong thread Grin

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halfwitpicker · 25/01/2018 21:38

I can imagine James Cordon saying it for some reason

Icanseethepigeon · 25/01/2018 21:40

I keep hearing "to be fair ..." said by bloody everyone. Really bloody irritating and usually adds no relevance.

MakeItStopNeville · 25/01/2018 21:40

There’s no “it’s”. It’s just, “My bad”. If you’re going to trash a crappy phrase from circa 1993, at least get it right! Grin

Cindie943811A · 25/01/2018 21:41

I feel sad that the present participle of to sit and to stand appears to have disappeared. Everyone says “I was stood in the corner” or “I was sat watching TV”.
Sounds more awkward than standing and sitting.

QueenFrosta · 25/01/2018 21:42

I can always tell when my neighbour is pissed off because her use of literally (LICHrally) dramatically increases. "I lichrally said to him you lichrally don't know what you're talking about and he lichrally turned around and went..."

Only1scoop · 25/01/2018 21:42

Neville

Really so no 'its'

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Mxyzptlk · 25/01/2018 21:46

"reaching out" hahahaha Can't stand it. It sounds like feebly waggling a limb and not actually making contact.
Approach - much better. Smile

PutUpWithRain · 25/01/2018 21:49

My bad can get to fuck.

Currently torn between weeping & stabbiness at someone who has really let me down and their reply was 'mea culpa'. No. No. NO no no no no no NO. You fucking apologise. You say 'I'm really fucking sorry, totally my fault, I understand why you're upset, it was shit of me, I'll do what I can to make it up to you, but I am still very sorry.'

'Mea culpa' is not some fucking let off phrase that means you don't need to apologise for being a shitting fucking letdown to someone AGAIN. We both arsing well KNOW you've fucked me about, and 8 crappy letters showing off how intelligent you are do not improve the situation.

PutUpWithRain · 25/01/2018 21:50

And BREATHE...

user1474652148 · 25/01/2018 21:50

I can not bear the way like Is used in like every other like word, d'ys know what i mean, like I say, no one like understands me

No no no no!!!!!!!!!!!!

I can't honestly ( like ) stand it.

Utterly brainless

Charolais · 25/01/2018 21:53

I’m surprised at all the Americanisms being used in the UK now. I was watching a British documentary and a police woman used the phrase ‘bad mouthing’.

Plumes · 25/01/2018 21:54

Bad mouthing has been widely used in the UK for a long time I'd say. Doesn't jump out as an obvious Americanism to me.

Pepperedbeef · 25/01/2018 21:58

Cindie interesting that one. It’s used a lot in the region of the uk I come from and noticed by a kiwi colleague of mine that my regional office use it but others don’t and she asked why. When I hear it, it feels like it’s being done for added effect/emphasis, can’t quite explain why? People from my region are known for being talkative and animated!

meredintofpandiculation · 25/01/2018 21:59

Absolutely! Since "absolutely" now means simply "yes", what do you say when you mean "absolutely"?

And on Home Front a couple of weeks back, someone said "whatever". Nobody used "whatever" stand-alone until about 20 years ago.

Only1scoop · 25/01/2018 22:00

'Bad mouthing has been widely used in the UK for a long time I'd say. Doesn't jump out as an obvious Americanism to me.'

Doesn't feel the same at all Plume I agree

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TestingmyPatience · 27/01/2018 11:21

Absolutely! Since "absolutely" now means simply "yes", what do you say when you mean "absolutely"?

'Totally!' Grin

feral · 27/01/2018 11:26

I love this phrase!

I'm 44 and it reminds me of Buddy.

feral · 27/01/2018 11:26

*Buffy

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