I had my baby son 6 months ago now and still haven't taken him into the office to visit, which is the norm at the company I work for
I feel a bit bad as they got me lovely presents when I came off on maternity leave. However day to day Im not close to anyone at work, never really took part in conversations etc as I have nothing in common with any of them and they had a style of "banter" I just don't get or know how to chat like. So generally I kept myself to myself, though was always polite and professional and just got on with work. Also it's an open plan office so everyone all talks as a group (12people!) and no privacy for one on one chats and I'm quite shy til I feel comfortable with someone.
If I go in everyone will get up and come over and stand around me asking questions and the thought fills me with dread. I just can't bring myself to go! I'll be starting back end of February though so don't want it to be awkward. I have had a few minor health issues through the last 6 months too mental and physical
My AIBU is if you worked in my office and had contributed to getting presents etc would you feel annoyed they didn't visit with baby?