I'm fairly certain I am, I possibly just need the whinge.
DD is 6 next week. I'm arranging her first proper, large birthday party at a venue. I've done all the research for it, found the right place, arranged it, helped her write her list and her invites, asked a few other parents to stay and help, planned the food, bought the party bags and the bunting and all that malarkey.
We decided to get her a bike as a present. This is DP's ONE job to do. Find (he's obsessed with getting the right one, we've already had a row about this as he was looking at bigger bikes that weren't really suitable for someone who hasn't had a bike before) and order or collect the bike. That's it.
He's off today. He's lying on the sofa "tired" and says he'll go get the bike another day. Which means at the weekend, which means he'll go out leaving me with both children while he probably spends 2 hours making his mind up, instead of going today when we don't have the kids with us.
Such a little thing I know but it's royally fucking me off now. He's shown NO interest at all in the party, hasn't once asked if there is anything he can do. She's 6, this is a big deal for her. He's great with everything else, housework and looking after the kids and all that, it's just this is bringing home that birthdays and Christmas always end up falling to me to sort and he seems to magically expect it either to happen or, if he has to get involved, I will TELL him what needs to be done after doing all the thinking.
Maybe I just need more coffee today but for someone reason this has royally narked me...