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To feel sorry for Lisa

87 replies

Flashinggreen · 14/01/2018 08:53

So it’s in DM that Ant’s filed for divorce. I know we only see what the press show us but from my point of view she’s been with him through her fertile years and now he’s gone off the rails and doesn’t want her anymore. I really hope he doesn’t hook up with someone else and manage to have children, not because he doesn’t deserve to have them, but when that happens it must be such a kick in the teeth.

I wish her love laughter and happiness without him.

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Flashinggreen · 14/01/2018 13:17

Probably

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scrabbler3 · 14/01/2018 13:29

Some of these posts are a bit patronising, as if Lisa is some pathetic, downtrodden wretch, rather than a make-up artist on the BBC's top show. Yes, I'm sad that she's sad. But she's no pitiful victim.

Sparklingbrook · 14/01/2018 13:44

Sometimes things should just stay thoughts in your head TBF.

Flashinggreen · 14/01/2018 13:47

I imagine she is not in need of my sympathy at all.

If we all kept our thoughts in our head there would be no MN.

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expatinscotland · 14/01/2018 13:47

Gees, maybe she never wants children. Maybe she's sick of living with an addict. Maybe she wants to be single.

Sparklingbrook · 14/01/2018 13:52

There are thoughts, and then there are thoughts..

Flashinggreen · 14/01/2018 13:52

Yes could also be true, she’s dodged a life stuck with him, but she’s been with him probably nearly half of her life so far?

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Addictedtohavingbabies · 14/01/2018 13:55

But why do you give a shit seriously. Focus on yourself.

papayasareyum · 14/01/2018 14:00

I imagine the single statement from him preempts an appearance at some point in near future with his new partner

Sparklingbrook · 14/01/2018 14:02

Or to get the press and anyone else having a speculate off his back.

Susiesoap7 · 14/01/2018 14:15

Nobody business but theirs, just hope he didn't meet someone in rehab!

Raffles1981 · 14/01/2018 14:22

My assumption was that his addiction has just killed them. It happens. As people have said, we can never really know the truth, but I admit I was hoping they would get through this. It's a shame, it's a sad situation and you can only hope they come out the other side as unscathed as possible. Addiction kills so many relationships time and time again. Such a shame Sad

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