Last night I came in from work late at about 10:20pm. I’ve been really ill with the flu since Christmas Eve and the night before I was up with my 3 year old son who was ill. As you can imagine I was pretty tired and desperate for bed. I was in the kitchen making myself a lemsip and the OH comes in and asks me if I will feed him grapes. I thought it was just a joke so I fobbed him off. He became more persistent, producing some grapes. I said it was silly and I was too tired. I was annoyed. He kept going on about it so I took one grape and tried to stuff it in his mouth. He got angry and said I wasn’t being very sensual. Fair enough, but it wasn’t the right time (not sure there would ever be a right time to be honest). I went to bed.
This morning he’s barely talking to me.
Then at work he sends me this image with the text “well?” He’s being really persistent about it and gets really hurt and offended every time I say I’m not interested. He’s now talking about getting a villa just so we can reanact this grape eating scenario. He’s really trying to push me into it.
Am I being unreasonable to think his request is ridiculous?