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To delete social media (FB) because it’s so bloody depressing..?

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Lovemusic33 · 09/01/2018 11:02

I use Facebook a lot, I like to see what family are doing and talk on groups (both my dc’s have sn’s so some days it’s my only contact with the outside world), but lately it’s been so depressing, everyone seems to be ill, a relative has so called flu and has been posting every detail about how awful she feels for the past week, updates about if she has managed to get out of bed today and if she has eaten Hmm, and she’s not the only one, there are 4 or 5 others who are also ill and have to share everything. Then there’s the family member that bought my dc’s a toy from Poundland for Christmas (nothing wrong with this if your skint), a week after Christmas she posted how they had been out and bought themselves a new xbox and a laptop, had to share exactly how much they payed for the items, where they bought them and then updates about how brilliant said x box is. Then there’s the lady who keeps posting about what a awful day she’s having, everyone asks her ‘what’s wrong’ and she replies with ‘I will message you’, FFS, if your not going to tell the whole of Fb what’s wrong why bother posting?

FB just seems to be full of people moaning about being ill, bragging about what they spend their money on. Photos of peoples dinner (plates of vomit) and people posting a couple words without explaining what they actually mean.

And don’t get me started on the one who has to post a photo of every movement their child makes, every new outfit and every new food tried.

If it wasn’t for the support network (the ASD community), I would happily delete it. People need to cheer the fuck up and stop moaning, get out in the real world and stop telling everyone how much they have spent on things.

I’m sure I’m not BU but I’m sure someone will come along and tell me I am Grin

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papayasareyum · 09/01/2018 18:41

I don’t have the choice though with politics. I’ve unfollowed most of the political ranters, but it still pops up from time to time from other friends. I don’t think they’re really trying to enlighten or educate, it’s more an exercise in loud virtue signalling really

BrownLiverSpot · 09/01/2018 18:47

Just delete it if you want to, you don't need to make a big thing out of it....

streetlife70s · 09/01/2018 19:24

I don’t understand why anyone would delete their own Facebook account as opposed to deleting people that annoy you.

I am also one of those people who thinks it’s what you make it.

I never ‘unfollow’ people. I literally would just ruthlessly delete anyone that was a dick head on there and I am very picky who I have as Facebook friends. Only family and close friends in real life, who I have chosen as friends because they are not dicks.

As a result they are not dicks on Facebook either.

Job done.

TheOtherGirl · 09/01/2018 19:40

I never had a problem with FB, probably because I was selective about who I friended (I genuinely liked them all) and because I was never that invested and could go weeks not looking at it.

But last year I moved over to IG because a lot of my friends and family already have, and I really prefer the format.

I think, generally speaking, if you're basically happy with yourself, your choices and your lifestyle then anything you see on FB or IG is unlikely to upset you, make you envious, make you depressed, make you bitchy etc.

But if things aren't as good in your life as you would hope, then comparing yourself to others on FB or IG is a recipes for disaster.

loverofcake983 · 09/01/2018 19:45

I deleted all my social media 4 months ago and I can honestly say I don't miss it. It was really messing with my mental health and causing problems in my relationship. Since deleting them all I feel 100% better

WhatALoadOfOldBollocks · 09/01/2018 20:16

I deleted all my social media 4 months ago and I can honestly say I don't miss it. It was really messing with my mental health

I'm seriously considering deleting my Mumsnet registration for pretty much the same reasons. I'm finding it's pissing me off more and more and consequently bringing out the twat in me. Plus I spend way too much time here instead of doing far more important tasks. It's too addictive.

Chocolaterainbows · 09/01/2018 20:32

Came off of Facebook about 3 years ago. Could never understand what all the fuss was about. Full of show offs and nosey people. Too busy living life and don't feel the need to share everything.

loverofcake983 · 09/01/2018 20:37

I joined mumsnet tho because I found I had nothing to look at on my phone 😆 and didn't want to go back on Facebook etc

Bluebell1981 · 09/01/2018 20:38

Hide everyone and just use it for groups etc!

VitriolicMuse · 09/01/2018 20:42

I deactivated mine in August last year. I don’t see myself ever using FB again. Your mental health will thank you for it.

yummyeclair · 09/01/2018 21:58

Ditto Blue bell 1981 that is exactly what I have done - feeling much more cheerful ever since.

HildaZelda · 09/01/2018 23:09

Facebook was the only social media platform I used and I deleted it about six months ago. I had a few hundred 'friends' on there and less than ten that I actually considered real friends. I was sick of constant bitching, attention seeking and nosiness. I don't miss it one bit.

BillswifePauine · 11/01/2018 16:00

Could someone please tell me HOW to delete my FB account. I've watched a couple of YouTube videos but can't find the symbols I need to click on.

Potteryprincess30 · 13/01/2018 13:31

@BillswifePauine it used to be in security settings I think. Theres a deactivate account button but haven't had it for over 5 years so not sure I'm afraid

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