To be tempted to raid the PC?

[madmuggle]

My ex cheated on me for eight years. He has finally made the decicion to go live with the bitch he finally ditched me for. Stupid fool has left the PC here. Am I being unreasonabe to want to go through 'his half' and delete everything?

Not at all unreasonable IMHO. Is he coming back for the PC? If so, can I suggest a nice piece of haddock inside it?

Sorry - very childish of me - just can't stand cheaters! There is never an excuse.

i dont think youre beeing unreasobanle.
but
were you married? will you be dividing any financial assets? if so, you may find evidence on the comptuer that may mean you get more . dont delete it unless youre sure.

Imo one can only move on when one stops thinking of revenge. I struggle with this at times but it really helps to be the emotionally superior person!

I wouldn't. Rise above it - supposing he sued you for destruction of 'his' property ie his files?

Yes, by doing stuff like this you are just showing him how much he still means to you. If you feel neutral about a person or have moved on emotionally you don't feel the need to do this stuff.

I'm not suggesting that you should feel neutral or have moved on - far from it. i'm just saying that you will be showing him exactly where you are emotionally if you do it - if you don't mind him knowing or want him to know, do it I guess.

But i don't think it will make you feel better in the long run. Don't let him make you into a vindictive person i say.

Stick everything on to a disc then delete delete delete.

Love the haddock idea (kimi makes note for use later)

Or if he is going to be taking the PC I would put some really dodgy porn sites on it.

Ohhhh I'm evil