Not really. I was with XH 5 years, married and had DS1 after 3 years. Got battered regularly and escaped.
And if it wasn't an abusive relationship before you got pregnant, then like everyone else reasonable I'd have every sympathy for you. If it was abusive (even if not physically) before you got pregnant, I'd question your judgement. So many people - not saying you are one of them - seem to think a child will mend a relationship or keep it from falling apart.
Was with DP less than a year when I fell pregnant with DD, DS2 followed 11 months later, not married yet a far, far better relationship.
Excellent, hope it continues, but was a risk because you frankly didn't know him from a hole in the wall.
Mumsnet is a nightmare to be honest, in that obviously it highlights all the idiots who for example are pregnant and not even with the partners of their children now, let alone when they're born (and there seem so many of them).
Anyway, whether people consider it "Handmaid's Tale" or not, many people are not giving their kids a fair chance in life, and then complaining when they don't think the State gives the lifestyle that they want for them. People need to take responsibility for themselves, and cut their clothes according to their cloth.
Loads of people who don't claim any benefits are limited to one or two children, because they don't feel they can afford more and give the lifestyle they would like. Why shouldn't the same apply?