I think the bottom line of the unhappiness so many of us have with this is that council housing tenants and Grenfell residents in particular are elevated to a status above everyone else.
Things that the rest of us are expected to cope with, handle, manage as every day life events are somehow regarded as horrific experiences for council housing/Grenfell tenants and must be avoided at all costs.
We all move far away from family and friends and our support networks all the time, as we find work, as we search for new opportunities, as the area we live in gets too expensive and we can't afford to live where we want. We move our children hundreds of miles, we resign our jobs, we move to places where we don't know anybody else. But we move and adapt to what we can afford and hunt for work. But oh no, social housing tenants cannot be expected to move out of a borough a few minutes away in case their life falls apart.
We rent rooms for years whilst social housing tenants get given flats. We work harder and harder and sacrifice everything to get our first flat or house, whilst social housing tenants get given flats and houses on a plate.
We live in crammed spaces in London, whilst social housing is actually built to bigger space standards than private housing. We are expected to live in small homes, social housing tenants get bigger spaces as laid down in the building standards!
We scrimp and save to do up our homes, but social housing tenants get modifications and improvements done for them.
If our homes burn down, it's up to us to have had insurance. If we didn't, nobody comes to rescue us, it's our own fault for not having insurance. Grenfell tenants without insurance get government funds and people rushing to set up gofundme campaigns to buy new furniture and clothes for them all. Whilst the rest of us are expected to have to rebuild our lives again.
We suffer tragedies, deaths, untold hardship, and we are expected to get on with it. Nobody marches for us, nobody sets up charities and campaigns to dole out cash for us, nobody comes and offers us therapy, we have to pay for it ourselves. Grenfell residents get housed in multi-million pound homes, hotels and get offered homes, all without needing to spend a £ on any of it, whilst a suite of therapists and psychologists are on standby, a whole suite of help and support to prop them up and remove any need for them to stand on their own two feet.
This inequality and elevated status of the social housing tenant is grossly unfair. Our outrage at this isn't a chip on our shoulder, isn't any anti-council sentiment, it's a genuine disgust at the situation where we are going out to work paying for ourselves completely whilst also being expected to wholly fund or subsidise others who get everything provided for them. This is what we are sick of.