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tigggga · 17/11/2017 03:37

No one enjoys their first time, might as well make a couple of quid!

pasturesgreen · 17/11/2017 04:46

My first time was an extremely unpleasant experience on many grounds. If I could have made £2m from it, well, quite frankly I wouldn't have said no.

FrustratedTeddyLamp · 17/11/2017 05:11

Another that doesn’t understand the double standard on this man vs the woma.

FrustratedTeddyLamp · 17/11/2017 05:11

Woman*

onemorecupofcoffeefortheroad · 17/11/2017 08:28

In about 1986 when I was 22 (not a virgin though) I was offered £40,000 to sleep with a middle eastern prince who was staying in the hotel where I worked. I turned it down - nitbin miral grounds - but because I was a shy little thing and rather terrified by the whole thing. At that time I could have bought a house with that amount .... sigh ....

dowsabel · 17/11/2017 09:02

There is no such thing as a virginity test via a medical professional or any quack out there claiming they can. Hymens come in all shapes, sizes and presentations and ‘intact’ is not an exact science. There can be many reasons why a hymen may not look ‘intact’ and lack of virginity is not the only reason. This belief in ‘virginity checks’ infuriates me and only serves to reinforce patriarchal and misogynistic attitudes.

To be rather gobsmacked by this
TammySwansonTwo · 17/11/2017 11:03

The concept of virginity being something of value is so misogynistic and grim. Don't judge her at all set up for life etc.

However, the men need to take a good look at why they think taking a woman's virginity is worth millions. They have some issues. The fact that men like this exist makes me very sad, and I suspect there are a lot of them. I also fear for her in the future and how it will affect her to have had her first sexual experience with a man she likely has no interest in attraction to. Not sure that amount is enough for a potentially traumatic experience and she can't know what she's in for.

Leilaniii · 17/11/2017 11:05

I don't believe this story. I think it's fake.

Ilovelampandchair · 17/11/2017 11:11

Shit, I gave mine away for free😭😭

FlaviaAlbia · 17/11/2017 11:23

Not really DistanceCall

For whatever reason she wants the money, the money rather than the sex is the choice.

DagenhamRoundhouse · 17/11/2017 18:02

Will she have to pay tax on it?!

supersop60 · 17/11/2017 18:06

“Churchill: "Madam, would you sleep with me for five million pounds?" Socialite: "My goodness, Mr. Churchill... Well, I suppose... we would have to discuss terms, of course... "
Churchill: "Would you sleep with me for five pounds?"
Socialite: "Mr. Churchill, what kind of woman do you think I am?!" Churchill: "Madam, we've already established that. Now we are haggling about the price”

― Winston S. Churchill

Italiangreyhound · 17/11/2017 18:11

walnutwhip88 if a fool is someone who wouldn't do it for 2 million, how low does the price go before one becomes a fool to do it?

BigRedMama · 17/11/2017 18:31

First thing I thought was 'what a good idea!' If some rich arsehole is willing to pay that much money for a bit of sex than more fool him. I would probably do it if I could! In fact, I regret giving my virginity to the the lad I was seeing at thr time, I would much rather of sold it for a huge amount of cash that would have set me up for life.Grin

Maireadplastic · 17/11/2017 18:33

He is going to want to do whatever he want's, however he wants (otherwise what would be the point?) which might be a horrific experience she would rather forget.

Maireadplastic · 17/11/2017 18:34

Apologies for errant ' in first line- ugh.

FaveNumberIs2 · 17/11/2017 19:22

Her body, her choice.

Maireadplastic · 17/11/2017 19:33

But Fave, I doubt it's going to be her choice what he does to her. He's bought her.

If the story is true, that is.....

Nottheduchessofcambridge · 17/11/2017 19:36

Oof, wish I had 2m when I lost mine. Quick fumble in the dark, nothing special. Oh to be 2m better off!

BoneyBackJefferson · 17/11/2017 19:37

I suspect that there is a whole list of provisos to his "purchase".

FaveNumberIs2 · 17/11/2017 20:47

@Maireadplastic that’s why she’s done it through an agency which specialises in this kind of thing, so that she’s constantly in a secure environment, and in charge of the situation herself.

Just because she’s sold herself doesn’t mean that the buyer will be into kinky shit or rough stuff. The buyer could, just as likely, treat her like an absolute princess.

Personally, I have no judgement either way. I like the fact that she’s taken charge of herself. Would I have done it if I’d had the same chance? I really don’t know!

WhatwouldAryado · 17/11/2017 21:01

I think there are too many ideas that sex is special or sacred or to be cherished. If we accept more that women's bodies are thiers entirely.
To rent out if they wish too. Then maybe, just maybe accepting that anyone with less than full consent was out of line touching someone else in a sexual way.

InternetHoopJumper · 17/11/2017 22:41

@ForagingForFaerieGold

The big deal is that she has no experience and can't decide what she likes and especially what she doesn't like to do in bed. It puts her in an extremely disadvantaged and vulnerable position and that is what men are willing to pay millions for. I judge those assholes. They are a waste of air.

Italiangreyhound · 17/11/2017 22:41

WhatwouldAryado "If we accept more that women's bodies are thiers entirely. To rent out if they wish too. Then maybe, just maybe accepting that anyone with less than full consent was out of line touching someone else in a sexual way."

Actually, I think the fact women are sexualised and seen as a commodity that can be bought, and sold, feeds directly into the idea that random men feel they can disrespect, touch, abuse etc women. So being able to sell access to one's body actually sells all women down the swany, IMHO.

kalinkafoxtrot45 · 17/11/2017 22:45

Revolting. Just revolting.