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To wish i had a friend

130 replies

sanddune11 · 13/11/2017 23:15

Just that really, i have a few casual type friends, but no one who i'm close to. Sometimes i just wish i had someone who i could confide in when i'm down. How lovely that must be. Sad

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May50 · 16/11/2017 06:45

In the little magnifying glass search bit type ChuMNs and then If it doesn't come up straightaway on the bar at the top which says All People Photos to the right of these there are 3 little dots, press that and then the group option comes up, press that and you should see the ChuMNs group.

Tastesjustlikecherrycola85 · 16/11/2017 07:44

Found it Grin

InflagranteDelicto · 16/11/2017 07:56

Feel the same. I'm rubbish at communication, and my social skills are even worse. I keep myself busy, and the few friends I have aren't close friends, plus I'm usually providing the shoulder and words of support . Lots of acquaintances though. Really struggled since I moved here.

Was thinking last night that I'd give anything to gave someone I can call after a crap day, often dp just doesn't get it.

CatsRule · 16/11/2017 16:56

Mollypolly2610 did you find it ok?

Olivetappas · 16/11/2017 17:01

I often feel this, I mean Iv had friends but sadly we grew apart
I jst want a friend who I have things in common with who

FuckFaulkerILikeTheGruffalo · 16/11/2017 17:40

Oh I could really do with this, I feel very lonely! I've put in a request for the group. I moved to a new city to be with my partner and I'm self-employed - not a good situation for making friends!

BowAndArrow · 16/11/2017 17:45

I can't find it! Sad

BowAndArrow · 16/11/2017 17:58

Can anyone add me? I can't find it at all. Nothing coming up.

Msqueen33 · 16/11/2017 18:04

@Tastesjustlikecherrycola85 yes me waves.

I’m lonely. I’ve just not clicked with any of the school gate mums and have just lost my friend making mojo I think.

tccat · 16/11/2017 18:06

It's ChuMNs

BowAndArrow · 16/11/2017 18:14

That's all I found.

To wish i had a friend
CatsRule · 16/11/2017 18:27

Where it says public groups, my groups, scroll to the right and select groups and it should be there.

BowAndArrow · 16/11/2017 18:32

No luck. Sad

Nothing's coming up except the things above no matter what I press.

WhitePhantom · 16/11/2017 18:57

Great idea re group. This is a link to it, thought I think it'll only work on a phone. m.facebook.com/groups/157359198205004

Maybe someone could copy and paste a link from a desktop?

Lucky11111 · 16/11/2017 19:11

Oooooh !!!

Have found the fb link

Can I join too? X

GinUnicorn · 16/11/2017 19:18

Found it! This is a great idea

MargeryFenworthy · 16/11/2017 19:22

What about trying to find some friends through MN? I've made some wonderful friends throughout the course of my career, DC, church and also made a whole new circle of friends here on Mumsnet.

socialmisfit · 16/11/2017 19:28

I've just requested to join too.

bookgirl1982 · 16/11/2017 19:37

Join request sent, hope to see you soon!

Youvegotafriendinme · 16/11/2017 20:00

Found it and have requested to join.

I often feel like this too. I’ve never had a best friend but did have 2 very close friends but i haven’t heard from either since I had my DS a year ago. Apparently they both wanted another baby and were jealous. Sad
I have a close friend I used to work with but she has 3DC, works full time and wouldn’t want to call on her even though that’s probably more my fault.
I have made friends with 3 mums through baby classes and we all meet regularly and they are all lovely but things are in early days. It would always be nice to meet new people

toopeoply · 16/11/2017 21:24

I feel the same. I'm rubbish at small talk, hate the phone. No one to call if I'm upset or whatever. I genuinely feel that no one apart from my children would miss me if I was gone.

Je3sica · 16/11/2017 22:53

Hi requested to join please?
I have a few friends but find it hard to start a conversation with knew people 🙃

Je3sica · 16/11/2017 22:53

New

OneDayIWillBeOrganised · 16/11/2017 23:04

Whitephantom thanks for the link. Request to join sent 😊

catlover1987 · 16/11/2017 23:07

I’ve requested to join too. Hoping to make a few friends in the Glasgow area.