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Breast milk is the best thing for your baby...

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Starwhisperer · 03/11/2017 12:25

Please hear me out on this one.

I know that advertising regulations are in line with the WHO advice that breast milk is the best thing for a baby until at least 6 months of age.

My issue is with the specifics in what we see and read as soon to be and new mothers.

I combi fed my first child for 18m as my supply never seemed to be where I needed it to be. The first 2 months were a hellish cycle of pumping and formula milk. I firmly believe the failure to feed as I'd wanted led to my PND. I met other mothers struggling at the time who felt the same way and there has been research done which has confirmed this.

Everytime I formula fed my baby there in front of me was the message "breast milk is the best thing for your baby". Am I being unreasonable to think that this would do more harm than good. I know it made me feel rotten. I'd have thought that by the time a mother is preparing and giving formula feeds it's generally too late to be converted to the idea of BFing. The message is either going to women entirely happy with their decision to FF or women like me who see it as a kick in the teeth because they tried their hardest and didn't get the hang of it.

I feel that instead more effort should be put in before birth to get the facts out there, all i had was ony little leaflet with no opportunity promoted to ask aboit tjings in more detail. Perhaps a blanket ban on formula advertising. They use babies as close to 6m as possible for the pictures which does far more in the way of promoting FF than a little message promoting BF on a box.

Perhaps I'm getting my knickers in a twist over nothing bit I feel the formula manufacturers are doing way more harm than good here.

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EvieBlack · 05/11/2017 09:42

My DSs were both huge and neither were the least bit interested in my boobs.

In all the first photos in the hospital, I’m red eyed from crying, clutching a sodden tissue. The midwives were determined that I would breastfeed but despite them grimly shoving my nipples into the baby’s face it never happened.

Both babies ended up FF and both are now stonking gurt teenagers. I wish I’d had the confidence to tell the midwives to fuck off with their grabby hands 😡

JustDanceAddict · 05/11/2017 09:47

Totally agree with you. I bf’d my first, but it was a struggle at first and we had to give her some formula as my milk didn’t come through for ages. Once it did, it was fine. With no.2 he struggled to latch and it just was not happening and he was losing too much weight. I pumped for a week so he’d get the colostrum but once I could see that he was never going to latch on I switched to formula 100% and he thrived- and is actually my healthier child as regards allergies, etc. Both are teens and you would never know who was breastfed!! Both tall & skinny but thems the genes, enjoy it while you can!!!

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