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WednesdayAddamsthefirst · 09/10/2017 03:49

I have recently done some work for an asset management company - my side of it is contract and not financial.

However - one member of their team, during drinks after a long day in the office proceeded to get massively coked up and told me and another woman, as 'non-office based' temporary contractors that despite him handling sensitive financial information and being in a position of trust:

-he claimed the equivalent of jsa in his home country (begins with Ire) for 2 years while working full time in London. This was about 7 years ago and he flew home once every couple of weeks to claim it
-that he had travelled to the US on a greencard obtained under false pretences instead of getting a J1 visa several times

I believe every bit of what he said and think he expected us to be impressed. He seemed to me a massively dodgy character and something about him deeply unsettled me. I feel like if he was investigated a lot more than this would be uncovered. My instinct tells me he should not be in a position of trust.

Who / should I report this to? Or should I just leave him to get on with it with his fraudulently obtained jsa in the bank still probably?

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WednesdayAddamsthefirst · 09/10/2017 12:28

Intersting. I admit I personally disliked him and was actually disturbed by him, not sure why. Just something about him and I hope I never have to work with him again.

I am confident what he said is true - that is WHY I am so shocked. My mum is Irish so the people implying I am accusing him of being a rogue for this reason - fail.

I'm not going to give any more details here now because I have decided to report it. Purely because I think this is the tip of the iceberg and I know people who trust his company with money - I think he needs to be checked out for their sake alone.

Re greencard - his family applied for greencards when he was a child and got them but never actually moved. I don't know how he managed to get away with it but based on actual photos he showed us he 100% did and this is what is so crazy. He said re the dole that the money came in handy even though he was earning in London.

And yes, again, if I liked him maybe I wouldn't do it. But based on how he was talking about his partners I'm sure some karma in the universe was coming his way.

I just wondered if I should do FCA report rather than directly to his company because I would prefer to be annonymous.

The coke thing I might mention but I'm not sure they would care about that as much.

Thanks for the advice

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WednesdayAddamsthefirst · 09/10/2017 12:32

Oh and he kept the greencard and used it to avoid paying for J1 visas - he used to go for 3 months ar a time. I didn't believe him either but he definitely managed to pull it off - cannot even imagine what underhand deals he manages to pull off at work. Maybe they know what he's like and that's why he got the job, who knows!

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MinnieMolly12345 · 09/10/2017 12:40

Not sure why his height is relevant and why you keep mentioning it:
'Very short dodgy little guy'
'vile little man' ???

WednesdayAddamsthefirst · 09/10/2017 12:42

It's relevant because I disliked him - relevant to me - and he was so small that I noticed it because he was such a dick. Pretty sure that's all obvious.

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Appuskidu · 09/10/2017 12:57

I thinking its horrible to be making personal comments about his height though. Surely his height has nothing to do with anything.

Would it be ok for you to call him a 'very fat dodgy guy' or a 'vile fat man'??

WednesdayAddamsthefirst · 09/10/2017 13:01

Probably not ok to make comments about his appearance in a negative way, we all know that. But, how can I put this: I thought he was the biggest creep I ever met and so to me, he is the short dickhead. Accept it's rude of me to say, that is probably why I said it. I found him offensive. I understand it's rude what I wrote re his height.

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Allfednonedead · 09/10/2017 13:01

HR or FCA. He's not a fit and proper person, however accurate his 'boasting' was.

PetraDelphiki · 09/10/2017 13:05

FCA definitely! If he's just bragging and it's false there won't be a problem, and if it's true he's definitely not a "fit and proper" person.

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