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AIBU?

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to think this is crass and shouldn't happen again.

87 replies

Fixthis · 04/10/2017 18:32

At work we hold an annual conference for managers and assistant managers. So about 1,200 employees attend. It is the usual thing, updates about the company plan and sharing the good news stories and making people feel part of something bigger.

Each of the most senior business leaders have a slot and generally all try to make it fun or interesting. For example one sets theirs up like a talk show. Each year a certain one of them choses to come on to stage flanked by models in little clothing. Nothing else. They don't perform or even talk that just stand either side of him and music plays as he comes in.

I instantly thought, eewww and why. To me the message is is giving to 1,200 employees is that women are there to look at and no more. Certainly that is the only roll thoes particular women have.

To be clear, we don't work in an industry that is at all related to beauty/fashion/modelling.

It makes me feel really embarrassed to work for the company. The guy has since been promoted and there is speculation in the office if he will do the same this year or if his replacement to his old job will 'get the honour'.

I think is is pathetic and sends a terrible message. AIBU?

OP posts:
Fixthis · 05/10/2017 14:54

Slim No, but you are on the right track.

OP posts:
Slimthistime · 05/10/2017 15:50

Final answer
Audi

But I suppose you can't tell us if I've won £64,000 Grin

Jux · 05/10/2017 15:58

A bank?

When you say 'right track', do you mean in terms of size? Is it a multi-national?

Electronics?

MovingOnUpMovingOnOut · 05/10/2017 16:04

I wondered if it might be a bank. I've worked for a few. Quite a few inadequate men with inferiority complexes in some fields.

PurpleStarInCashmereSky · 05/10/2017 16:21

Could be a bank but I reckon car company. Or possibly car/aerospace like Rolls Royce.

Floellabumbags · 05/10/2017 16:24

What's his name? Albert Steptoe?

LemonadeWithACherry · 05/10/2017 16:58

Ugh. The Sky darts players come out flanked by sexily dressed young women, which is why I only watch darts on the BBC. Does he think he's Phil Taylor OP?

Gazelda · 05/10/2017 17:22

Bloody hell! Do you have a staff forum? Or an annual staff survey? Can you feedback your thoughts that Way? What does your own line manager think about this?

The1975 · 05/10/2017 18:12

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Housemum · 05/10/2017 18:57

Just in case there was a context (really struggling to see what!) i would ask someone involved, "maybe it's just me, but I didn't get the bit with the models? I'm sure it was meant to reference/mean something but it just looked like a throwback to the days when women were just used as decoration?"

ginexplorer · 09/10/2017 08:17

Are their any women in senior management positions there? Perhaps she could get some hunky beefcakes covered in body oil in just a jock strap to parade on to talk the absolute p*ss. ok ok just my revenge side being silly.

Seriously tho what a weirdo. There is having a joke and there is taking it too far. What he has done is take it too far. Its grimacing stuff. Escalate to a higher level.

CasperGutman · 09/10/2017 09:05

I'm genuinely astonished that a serious company with a public image it cares about (OP mentioned a "Daily Mail test" etc) would allow this to happen.

I've worked for several multinational companies in sectors that are male-dominated and in many ways quite sexist (engineering, construction, utilities) including with clients in very sexist parts of the world, and not one of them would have tolerated this sort of thing for a millisecond.

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