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If someone told you that you 'shoot from the hip'

108 replies

TiesThatBindMe · 27/09/2017 06:43

Would you consider it a compliment or a criticism?

Context (a guy I was dating and I can't remember what I had said).

OP posts:
MoralBeryl · 27/09/2017 08:39

No one is jumping to conclusions. They are progressing by logical steps based on information provided ( ie your updates) to a very natural conclusion. YY

OP has also missed the irony that she's provided one brief and unhelpful line of 'context', asked everyone to come to a conclusion on what it meant and then suggested they are unreasonable for doing so!

Loopytiles · 27/09/2017 08:52

OP seems like the "ooh, I call a spade a spade, say what I think, me" and takes pride in it type.

C8H10N4O2 · 27/09/2017 08:54

In the UK its often a criticism of women whilst being praise for men.
Which tells you all you need to know.

Keep shooting.

myfeetarealwayscold · 27/09/2017 08:58

context is everything - For me it means straight talking, upfront but not necessary bad. If my boss said t to me I'd take it as a compliment. Don't know what I would think if a date said it tho'

Papafran · 27/09/2017 09:11

OP seems like the "ooh, I call a spade a spade, say what I think, me" and takes pride in it type

Uh huh. I know someone else like that- Katie Hopkins. Also shoots from the hip.

Pacificplaza · 27/09/2017 09:23

I think he was actually being very diplomatic, going by your responses OP. I'd have just called you rude.

xqwertyx · 27/09/2017 22:09

Im amazed at people thinking it means you are straight talking. Never mind that its a compliment.

DuchessMinnie · 29/09/2017 16:39

Why do people think it means straight talking? It doesn't. It means the you act immediately in reaction to something without thinking it through. I don't think it's a good thing at all.

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