Hello, I'm really hoping for advice on this. My son became disrespectful and a bit of a handful but nothing major in high school. Since then it's been mostly downhill, he's stolen from me (hundreds from my bank at one point after watching me key in my pin over my shoulder), his little siblings know they have to hide their money including birthday money etc or he will take it (they've learnt from experience). He still regularly steals from his dads car and wallet. He breaks things when he's angry and has no respect for our rules. He smokes in the house, comes in and out when he pleases often banging on his siblings windows at 3am on school nights because he's lost his key. Again. He hardly goes to college, has a pt job but still expects me to buy everything for him and doesn't help out at all. The final straw came today when he was physically pushing his 8 year old sister around because he wanted to use something that still needed wiping and decided it was her job to clean it(?). I went in to keep them apart and he pushed me 3 times. He then threw stuff around in a temper. His dad came in just then and told him to leave and calm down. He kicked a football which hit me and knocked me over so his Dad flipped, told him enough is enough after 3 years of this and threw him out with instructions not to come back. I'm torn now between relief and guilt. Any advice would be gratefully received.