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To think school shouldn't refuse my child lunch

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Rathercrossaboutthis · 18/09/2017 16:01

DS (12) forgot his school lanyard today. He's a well behaved boy who rarely forgets things (although it causes him much anxiety to stay on top of things not least because he has HF ASD). He called me in a panic en route to school as at this school forgetting the lanyard is a behaviour point, if not a detention offence, but it was too late for me to do anything.

He just told me that he was refused entry into the canteen for not having his lanyard (even though you don't actually need the lanyard to purchase lunch as there's a "thumb print" system). The teacher concerned was apparently very unpleasant when he tried to explain and shouted 'No lanyard. No lunch". He actually usually has packed lunch and goes to a "quiet room" for this so tried to go there to ask one of the SEN staff for help but again he was blocked by this teacher. He was told he was only allowed to lessons but nowhere else.

Ok I know he broke a rule by forgetting his lanyard but surely they can't punish him by refusing him lunch??? For all this teacher knew he could've been diabetic or something.

WIBU to complain?

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youarenotkiddingme · 19/09/2017 16:52

I'm glad you've had a response that says they'll look into it and find a way to prevent it happening again.

I take the attitude with ds school that I do things sometimes which don't work for him and therefore I understand they'll make mistakes too. As long as they a) find another way to accommodate him and b) listen when I say something doesn't work/didn't work for ds and seek to change it then we are working well in partnership.

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