DP and I have split up and although it's me that's called time on us I know he can't have been not expecting it. However we rent a house currently and as I'm on a career break to be a Sahm am I being unreasonable to think that he should be the one to leave? As I feel it would be easier for our DD to adjust to him not being here in familiar surroundings and frankly as I'm going to have to seek financial help for now I imagine I'll be seen as a less then desirable tenant than him who works full time etc? Or should I be the one to go because I'm the one who decided I can't go on with our relationship right now?