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To feel so hurt

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Ihatemen00 · 05/09/2017 09:59

Been mainly messaging a guy for nearly a year. Met a few times and had sex once. Long story as to why not met more which I don't want to go into.

We've had a few disagreements but last night he was really nasty.

He has a tendency to blow hot and cold on me. Yesterday I asked him why he did this after I text him previously as he seemed a bit abrupt? Well he really went off on one, saying 'oh ffs and I'll be off with you now". I replied asking if he meant that and he just ignored me.

I then left it a couple of hours then text him again and he said "I'm fucking busy" then had a dig at me because he works and I don't, he wasn't working last night btw, so he couldn't use work as an excuse last night.

I sent him a couple more messages basically asking him why he's being like this and that I thought he liked me but obviously not. He ignored that so then I sent one more text saying I may as well delete your number now as you're ignoring me anyway.

He replied later saying stop being silly. Not heard since.

If he really liked me he would be messaging me first thing to tell me, surley?

I feel really hurt by his nasty outburst.

If he was busy with work then fine, but he was off yesterday and when he told me he was busy, his wattsapp was constantly online!!

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Motoko · 05/09/2017 15:12

he's been playing them with me so why shouldn't I have the last laugh before blocking him?

Because it's pointless and childish.

MadMags · 05/09/2017 15:56

It's not the last laugh.

Honestly, you've embarrassed yourself enough with all of this. Holding out for a text from him so you can have another scrap of attention just isn't good for you.

Ihatemen00 · 05/09/2017 16:18

Oh but it's so tempting to have that last word. But you're all right that I should just ignore him, like he has me on several occasions.

I doubt he will text again as he's probably got others on the go and he's had his use with me now.

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