My daughter was told by her friend that she will go to hell because she does not go to church. They were both 7 at the time. For a moment there my DD was worried, I had to assure her that it was not true.
Having grown up as a Catholic I remember learning these things, with out question, and accepting them as such because "it says so" in the bible.I would ask how do we know that God really exists and the answer would because we have proof in the bible, because "it says so".
I think every ones thinking and beliefs should absolutely be respected, and religion brings great joy and comfort, to many. However, I was conditioned to believe so many things that are not true , and at times, things that are quite extreme and frankly very bad e.g that yes, I am full of sin and indeed I will probably be going to hell for all my sins etc. I was actually scared of this possibility for a very long time. This was my conditioning, from a young age.
I have decided not bring up my children in the faith, but we look at different belief systems and talk about them, so that they are as aware, as they can be, about everything. And also to absolutely question everything.
I do believe in God, but not in the biblical sense. I believe that there is something much greater than us, a life force as such. However, in equal measure, faith should be a personal matter and in no way should have influence on the education system or the governance of a country.
Thank goodness for secularism!!