Crush on someone 18 and a half yrs older than me

[acapellagirl]

This. Why why why??

Confidence? Experience? Success?

It doesn't matter. If you're both single and you think (s)he might be interested, go for it.

Thanks. It's he. Dr - yes - might want to add good looks to that list as well lol!!

I fell for a man 15 years older than me. Dr as well. I ended up marrying him. Older can mean wiser and kinder.

I can understand this. Although men eighteen years older than me are in their late seventies...

If you are both free and single, YANBU.
Why would you be?

Same here although he is 16 years older and a work colleague! I am also asking why, why, why ☺

DH is 12 years older than me, our relationship works well. Go for it.

Yup, I did this. 15 years older than me. It was ten years ago now.

Was it a good idea?

Hang on, I'll just ask him...

Haha not really feeling that IABU. I quite enjoying it!! Nice to hear the success stories!!

Well, I may not be qualified to post here - DH is almost 4 years younger than me

DH is 20 years older than me. We've been together 20 years and married for 5. If you're both single then go for it!