Son and nursery

[Letstryagainshallwe]

My ds is due to start nursery in September and I'm not really happy with it tbh. I only agreed as I have two older kids in school and whenever I drop them the staff would constantly and I mean constantly ask me about sending my son to nursery. Even when I agreed I would constantly get asked if I've filled the forms in yet. One lady was asking me every time she saw me even though I had kept saying no I hadn't had the chance. Anyway they are going to do a home visit soon?? Is this standard win nursery (as I don't know any one who has had this) and tbh it feels like just a chance to look around my home. Not sure why else they would need to do a home visit? Anyway aibu in not really wanting him to go??

Rhonda by pestering her to this extent they are implying it is essential. As are the posts asking why she wouldn't send him,saying she is doing him a disservice etc...in my opinion. Which you don't have to agree with obviously.

But regardless, I would get seriously pissed off with the nagging.

nothing you've posted on here suggests that you're delaying pre-school because you think it's in your son's interests to miss out- only that you can't get your shit together and find a nursery offering hours that suit you, in a location that suits. The school may well have picked up on this, and are micro-managing you because they think you need it.

A million times this. A few people have said roughly the same thing, but you're only acknowledging the 90% who agree with you.

Well obviously I'm going to go with the vast majority! Anyway I don't need to "get my shit together" as nursery isn't compulsory and he is not behind in anyway so I won't be sending him. But thanks anyway