this is still going on!!
MIL said she had £500 for us for our wedding, that is 'put away' in one of those hard to get at accounts,
when i got my wedding dress she gave me £130
we had a hard time getting the money promised from FIL too (said £1000 but gave us £500 in the end)
so once FIL gave us £500 MIL asked if she could borow £300 for her rent!!
DH agreed,
so now she owes us £300 that she borrowed and hasnt mentioned the other £370 (left over from the original £500 she said she would give us)
she had said the money is put away - its been about 5 months now - why doesnt she just get it out of the account??
we didnt plan to get married until we had save ourselves but my MIL, FIL and mum all said they had money for us so why wait!
so we planned it based on what they said they would give us but upto now MIL has given us £130 out of the original £500 she said
FIL has given us £500 in stead of £1000 (and MIL has taken 300 of that!!)
and my mum was going to give us £1000 - but she is ill now and cant sell the house because of some clause that means if she leaves before Jan she owes the council £30,000!!!
i dont know what to do
like i said we werent going to get married as we couldnt afford it, but they promised us this money and we have booked and paid deposits (over £500 worth) based on these promises
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KittyLetteMeEatAnEasterEgg · 29/03/2007 11:28
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