To bra or not to bra?

[BeingMePls]

That is the question?

Just had a little spat with DH about me not wearing a bra during weekends. Obvs wear one to work, but find them really uncomfortable and quite frankly don't want to wear one. I am of the larger boob variety.

I of course wear proper clothes 🙄 and I don't feel like I'm being indecent but he feels like I am.

Who's BU?

What's it to him? Not like you said you wear no clothes at weekends (during the weekly food shop ). As others have said your body your business. If your bras are uncomfortable they might not be the right size. I wore a 32DD for years and hated bras - then got properly measured and discovered I'm a 32F ha. Now bras (the right style for me) are comfortable. Bravissimo do good sizing fittings x

I agree with your body your choice but check out boob or bust on fb, I'm a complete convert to their way to measure.
When I'm around people I wear stretchy croptops

I bet you're not 38D and that's why you find bras so uncomfortable.

Typical Sun.

Shitty, badly written article with random pictures of women putting on bras whilst displaying bum cracks. Your mother would be proud of your journalistic skills... in

I shall get re-measured!

(bad for large breasts as well not to be supported properly)

In what way?

In what way?

I'd like to know that as well. Where is the clinical evidence?

Is there any evidence either way?

Yes. The evidence is that after not wearing bras for their entire lives, women of the past still had working mammaries.

I get underboob sweat when I wear bras and I've been fitted by 'experts'.

I find when I don't wear bras I tend to stand taller, back straighter and this helps with my inner core muscles.

However, I do like to wear a vest. I'm a vest woman.

Anti chaffing cream seems to work well

YANBU. Your "D"H can wear uncomfortable garments (I like the wired pouch for testicles someone suggested ) if he so chooses, but your body is yours do decide over.

You should try to find more comfortable bras for work - I don't think women should have to wear bras at work, but acknowledge that the problem is not so easily solved and you have to earn money, after all.

I'm glad my breasts are small enough so I get away with not wearing a bra in the eyes of even the most critical person on the planet (my mum).

I'm a 36F and they've never been exactly pert, I can't not wear one. I even wear a soft sleep bra under my pyjamas.

But if you're comfortable with how you look and feel without one go for it

To be fair, if I was out with my DH who refused to wear underpants/ boxers and it was obvious to all, I'd ask him to put on a pair.

The only tit I can see in this scenario is him..

To be fair, if I was out with my DH who refused to wear underpants/ boxers and it was obvious to all, I'd ask him to put on a pair.

To be fair, this! If my husband said he didn't want to wear undercrackers at weekends, they were so uncomfortable and I could see cock and balls, I'd be damn well asking him to put a pair on. And I wouldn't be out with him until he did. His body his choice , sure, But my choice not to be out with him.

I always wear a bra , I hate them jiggling everywhere plus don't want droopys. I would never go out without one as I hate thinking people can see my nipples too . I don't find bras uncomfortable unless they don't fit right .

Am I the only one who pretty much never wears a bra unless I'm wearing an extremely thin top on a breezy day? I fucking hate them and have never been able to find one that I feel comfortable in despite being professionally measured a number of times....

I just wear sports bras/crop top type things for a bit of support but even that is on a good day. Luckily my DP has no issue, he even embraces my bra free life! (I've got rather large knockers) but comfort is the important thing to me do what you want OP.

Your boobs, you choose.

I always wear a bra at home or out. I'm very small (32B) but my bras are so comfortable that I don't even notice that I've got them on. And, to be honest, it's more comfortable to wear one than not. But, it's entirely up to you and nothing to do with your dh what you do.

Bluntness 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 god that made me giggle ! Loving this thread !

Like this Bluntness? To be fair.

I wear a bra at all times even in bed! I find it very uncomfortable not wearing one, not to mention my clothes wouldn't look as nice. Horses for courses though, unfetter those norks if you find it more comfortable.

I never wear a bra in the house, I find it more comfortable. I'm a b cup and I find bras uncomfortable and get under boob swear aswell. My DP loves it when I don't wear a bra in the house.

I have at various times in my life been a B cup right through to JJ. I am currently a D.

If I let my boobs hang free then I'm sure of a case of thrush in my... don't know what to call it. Basically the under-boob. I have experienced this many summers when I've not been wearing the correct size due to vanity or skintness.

I find sports bras the most comfortable, but underwired bras in the CORRECT size are the most flattering.

I totally sympathise with the whole "fuck this, I'm going bra-less" thing because I recall plenty of shopping trips which ended in tears of frustration due to my "abnormal" body. But if you can find a good bra fit, I promise it's so worth it. Even if you have to order about 20 different sized bra online and just try them on in the privacy of your own home, do it. you really do deserve a good fitting bra.

Saucy omg I'm scarred is that actually real ewwwww hahahaha