When I met DH i was very impressed by his job. And ny head was turned by the idea f being his girlfriend and then his wife.
Looking back there were so many red flags.
Nearly 2 decades on and I am trapped in a marriage I can't leave because of finances but mainly because I don't trust him alone with our children. I can just imagine him being on the front page of the Mail having killed himself and the kids.
I hate and despise my weak little shallow self for falling for it.