I have one best friend we used to be really close but the last year I've barely seen her, we arrange a meet and she either says she can't make it on the day or doesn't even text at all until the next day! I haven't seen her in ages now and I'm just starting to think maybe we're in different stages of our lives now and don't have a great deal in common, I have a child and focus maybe on family life, and she's just moved in with a boyfriend.
I'm not one of those that talks about baby stuff all the time in fact we never speak about my child at all because I know she's not interested I'd think a friend of 10 years would be at least able to ask how my dd is once in a while though!
She's text this morning saying sorry about not texting me yesterday saying she was unable to meet and if I wanted to go round to her new place next weekend for drinks, I'm a single mum live rural, can't drive and she knows I won't have anyone to look after dd. I'm close to my mum but she is so busy I wouldn't want to leave dd with her. I've text friend saying I won't have a babysitter, she's read it and not replied,
Would I be wrong to just say forget meeting all together? I text her and get blatantly ignored, we arrange to meet and she drops out. I haven't even seen her this year and barely at all last year, she lives half an hour away!