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To think most of us don't follow our own advice?

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Wilburissomepig · 03/08/2017 11:50

I did say most, though accept it may just be me!

I see lots of advice given on here of what people would do in a certain situation. e.g. a parking situation, a holiday problem, dealing with relatives etc.

Lots of great advice given and I have often thought 'Well I'd just tell them to piss off', but, in reality, I really wouldn't! I hate confrontation and have to be pushed to my very limit before I would.

I've never told anyone to fuck off to the far side of fuck. I've never left my family on holiday because of a problem and gone home (even though I've felt like it) etc etc.

So while I'm happy to tell someone else to man/woman up and deal with a situation head on, I'm really shit at doing that very thing myself. Is it just me?

OP posts:
PsychoPumpkin · 03/08/2017 14:33

I try only to give realistic advice. I'd hope I received it too!

scortja · 03/08/2017 15:30

YANBU - a lot of the advice on here is ridiculous. I can't even imagine how some of the conversations would go.

It's quite funny when the OP starts to (reasonably) protest some of the awful 'tell 'em to fuck off/call 101/no is a complete sentence' advice and then gets a barrage of 'are you always so passive?' or 'i can't believe there are women out there who still put up with this shit' or 'you are failing your child'

MrsTerryPratchett · 03/08/2017 15:48

Not if it's hyperbole! Clearly, "I burn the house down when there's a spider" isn't real advice. But mainly I'd a fairly assertive person who offers vaguely followable (not a real word) advice. I think.

MrsTerryPratchett · 03/08/2017 15:48

*I'm

DdraigGochMwnci · 03/08/2017 15:52

Because it's much easier to give advice as an outsider.

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