Nasty friend AIBU to completely cut her out of my life

[Sophie333]

My only friend for over 10 years has sent me such a nasty spiteful text ive ever recieved literally fuming my OH is telling me not to lower myself to her super low levels i messaged her letting her know one of our friends is expecting a child she replies with this-Oh cool and oh well another girls life fucked from having a baby all your life's are jokes mate for the next 20 old years fuck that shit mum this mum that i want this I want that fuck off mate I won't my womb taken the fuck out or I'm getting my tubes tied at least my pussy is gonna be tight for life unlike women's with baby big sagging curtains fuck that that's why your men are always gonna cheat cause they want something tighter fact of life lol x - she actually had the audacity to leave a x at the end wtf what would you do i literally dont want nothing to do with her i dont need that sort of negativity and pure hatefulness in my life

@AuntyElle, and a comma before OP, too, strictly speaking. Since we're apparently here to discuss correct grammar.

Is this a sketch from Catherine Tate

AuntyEllie

I'd reply asking if her phone had been stolen.
No sure how you could be friends with someone with this attitude.

Flowersandfootballs I wouldn't be concerned about husbands cheating comments as she's clearly only saying it for effect

OP I've had similar 'friends'. Cutting them out of my lifewas empowering

Cut her out of your life OP she sounds unstable, and start using sentences. Have a wonderful day

Perhaps she's infertile. 🤷‍♀️

She sounds like a female version of Smithy from Gavin and Stacey! Completely insecure and can only see the world in terms of her own needs. To be pitied really. Move on, but I can't see her going quietly!

But the OPs posts are really hard to read due to lack of punctuation!
I have also failed to read her updates as it's making my eyes and brain hurt.
Sorry, don't normally police posters use of punctuation or lack thereof but I think it's worth pointing out to the OP that she may get more replies to her dilemma if she considers the readability of her posts!

The lack of punctuation makes it difficult, but not impossible to read! Just mentally insert commas as you read...

Anyway, the "friend" sounds damaged and extremely unhappy - and lacks the self control, self awareness and don't-be-a-dick filter that normal human beings apply to conversation.

However, being desperately unhappy and trying to justify to herself why her life is so different to that of her friends, is no defence for being vile and it doesn't soften what she said. Unfortunately you may have to step slowly away, she will only bring you down. Let her sort herself out.

It honestly sounds like some 10 year old borrowed the phone.

I think it must be a case of the phone having been taken by someone else, or she has to have mental health problems. TBH it sounds as if she might always have had them. You say she was lovely, but that may have only because you let her have everything her way.

I don't think it's fair to call it jealousy of having a kid, but...christ. I'm childfree and it's NEVER an excuse to hate on women's bodies.

Well she sounds a bit thick so no big loss, I'm sure.

No, I don't think she's at all jealous of the OP having a kid, she's jealous of the kid, totally different! She's vying for the OP's attention!

Are you both quite young OP? It sounds like she's jealous your life has moved on.

Would you say 27 is young. And she's not infertile she could have children, I wouldn't of told her if she was and her phone wasnt stolen as i spoke to her 5 minutes after the text.

Is ask her if she has thought about going to see a counsellor to express her feelings