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To ask NDN to park in bay 2

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Smokingcatapillar · 30/07/2017 20:14

Obviously I wouldn't trust any other group of people to help out with a parking thread,I am however posting on behalf of my DM. I understand rule of thumb is that a diagram must be posted so I've added one.
The jist is....DM's NDN keeps parking in bay 1 which is right next to her living room window and in front of her garden gate. She is a nervous 60+ and finds the car lights at night disturbing, not to mention the fact that the car blocks her gate, they occasionally open the car door too wide which bangs the wall. During the day they park half up the path/road directly outside their house then move the car in the evening. She asked them when they first moved in if they could park in bay 2 as bay 1 belonged to her. Their response was 'why should we? You don't own a car, so what's the problem?'
DM then explained about the lights, gate, banging etc to then be told that there is a muddy puddle right under the car door and that their kids end up
Stepping in it and ruining their shoes. DM got defensive and a bit arsey that they didn't respond the way she hoped and said they should be more worried about their children breathing in their smoke whilst in the car (she spies on them, nosey old lady don't judge lol)

It's got to the point now that DM drags her bin down the side of the path right up against their car hoping it will cause damage and deter them and they glare at her sometimes muttering things under their breath. She has now asked me to say something.

To ask NDN to park in bay 2
OP posts:
Smokingcatapillar · 01/08/2017 08:48

CrosswordPuzzle
Yes that is what I said, thank you for clarifying that with an exact quotation.
Never said you sounded horrible. Pls re-read my comments and find that exact quote. (You won't, because I didn't say it)

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PurityOfChaos · 01/08/2017 09:06

If they continue to block her gate contact the HA as the landlord they have a responsibility to your DM. It might be worth reading the tenancy agreement, some HA have clauses about conduct of tenants and their visitors.

seastargirl · 01/08/2017 09:22

I think I'm on track to join the nasty and vindictive camp Grin

simon50 · 01/08/2017 13:48

I love the idea of the skip... it will give NDN somewhere to dump their rubbish !

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