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To ask NDN to park in bay 2

79 replies

Smokingcatapillar · 30/07/2017 20:14

Obviously I wouldn't trust any other group of people to help out with a parking thread,I am however posting on behalf of my DM. I understand rule of thumb is that a diagram must be posted so I've added one.
The jist is....DM's NDN keeps parking in bay 1 which is right next to her living room window and in front of her garden gate. She is a nervous 60+ and finds the car lights at night disturbing, not to mention the fact that the car blocks her gate, they occasionally open the car door too wide which bangs the wall. During the day they park half up the path/road directly outside their house then move the car in the evening. She asked them when they first moved in if they could park in bay 2 as bay 1 belonged to her. Their response was 'why should we? You don't own a car, so what's the problem?'
DM then explained about the lights, gate, banging etc to then be told that there is a muddy puddle right under the car door and that their kids end up
Stepping in it and ruining their shoes. DM got defensive and a bit arsey that they didn't respond the way she hoped and said they should be more worried about their children breathing in their smoke whilst in the car (she spies on them, nosey old lady don't judge lol)

It's got to the point now that DM drags her bin down the side of the path right up against their car hoping it will cause damage and deter them and they glare at her sometimes muttering things under their breath. She has now asked me to say something.

To ask NDN to park in bay 2
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Smokingcatapillar · 31/07/2017 11:25

everyone rents from the same housing company.
I've called this morning to ask who owns each bay.
Bay 1 belongs to my mother, bay 2 is her neighbours. So that's settled and housing will send out a letter.
Phew
But.... CrosswordPuzzle
I find your comment a bit OTT, you sound bitter.
Of course my mother has many redeeming qualities, she is my mother

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CrosswordPuzzle · 31/07/2017 11:37

Being a mother and vindictive / nasty aren't mutually exclusive.

Do you think a nice person would drag a bin down someone's car hoping to damage it? She sounds horrible.

NormaSmuff · 31/07/2017 11:40

she is just cross
crossword

NormaSmuff · 31/07/2017 11:40

and your comments are spectacularly unhelpful

Smokingcatapillar · 31/07/2017 13:09

I never said she drags the bin for this purpose entirely.
She has no choice but to drag the bin between her house and their car, her attitude is... if it damages their car it serves them right for being rude.
Hardly vindictive

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lieka · 31/07/2017 13:11

Grin she's practically HITLER op, how do you deal with that? Why haven't you just shot her already and put us all out of our misery?

laureywilliams · 31/07/2017 13:15

crossword you sound horrible.

Smokingcatapillar · 31/07/2017 13:16

lieka
I have no idea, but I am really cautious when dragging my bins, pushing trolleys etc... I don't want to be tarnished with the same brush.

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laureywilliams · 31/07/2017 13:17

op if they continue to ignore the ha letter you'll have to decide to either push the issue with them or put something else in the space. Plant pot as others have suggested or I know someone who uses a trailer very effectively for a similar issue.

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myusernamewastaken · 31/07/2017 13:22

I think the op's mum has probably been pushed to the end of her tether by this and i dont blame her...I would end up being vindictive and spiteful if someone was blatantly taking the piss and bullying me !!!

SantasLittleMonkeyButler · 31/07/2017 13:27

If OP's DM was actually a nasty, vindictive, old lady with no redeeming qualities then this problem wouldn't even have made it to MN.

She'd have called "the heavies" in weeks ago Wink.

Now go & move your car please.

Smokingcatapillar · 31/07/2017 13:46

If she really was that nasty and vindictive she would've returned their cat shit to the car wind screen instead of just flinging it back in their garden

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Lucked · 31/07/2017 14:27

Can she not just get better curtains to block out the light this all sounds like a mountain out of a molehill.

Smokingcatapillar · 31/07/2017 14:48

Yes she could buy different curtains, but that doesn't solve her problem of gate blocking, can't get her bins out with ease or the car door banging on the wall.
They have been out today and returned their car to bay2 so hopefully they have realised it's not such a big deal to just park there in future.

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simon50 · 31/07/2017 18:37

Just a thought, but anyone who 'bangs' their own car door against a wall and then parks so close to OPs car that she would have to have her car door pressed against theirs in order for her to get in the drivers side will hardly be bothered that it might be scratched by a plastic bin !

CrosswordPuzzle · 01/08/2017 01:26

Smokingcatapillar

You said "DM drags her bin down the side of the path right up against their car hoping it will cause damage and deter them." and you think I sound horrible?

AllToadsLeadToHome · 01/08/2017 01:34

Planters in the space, filled with fast setting concrete?

buttfacedmiscreant · 01/08/2017 06:55

a bigger muddier puddle in her bay?

justtakeaspaday · 01/08/2017 07:12

If no one ever parks in the other one, why not ask them to park in the middle of the two?

00100001 · 01/08/2017 07:35

crossword

You're missing point of the thread. A 60 year old woman is being bullied by two younger adults. They have no right to park their car there. They're being twats.

And you think the OPS mother is the one to take a pop at because she puts buns in her space??? Confused

seastargirl · 01/08/2017 07:54

Hire a skip and pop it in your bay, job done!

ShowMePotatoSalad · 01/08/2017 07:58

I park in bay 1 whenever I visit

So when you park there it doesn't bother her but when NDNs park there it does?

ShowMePotatoSalad · 01/08/2017 08:02

seastargirl haha that cracks me up. I love the idea of someone indefinitely renting a skip in order to stop the NDNs parking in that bay Grin

Smokingcatapillar · 01/08/2017 08:46

ShowMePotatoSalad
No she isn't bothered by me parking there as I don't visit at night time. And 99% of the time she knows I'm coming. At the most my car stays there for 2 hours in the day

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