I'll start by saying I'm feeling v hormonal and tearful today so go easy on me 
DD is coming to the end of her first year of secondary school. Though popular with plenty of friends, she is a quiet girl who generally lacks confidence and I feel that the teachers have a tendency to overlook her. It seems as though the very bright/sporty ones get noticed and rewarded (again and again) or the ones who struggle, but not those who just quietly get on with things, keep their heads down and work hard. I had hoped things would be different in secondary but I feel it's only going to get worse as its a very big school.
She is very sporty but not one of the very best so again, it seems as though the same kids get the opportunities, awards and glory. It's sports day soon and I'm bracing myself in case DD doesn't get offered a chance to participate (she will be gutted). I can already reel off the list of names I know will be chosen. I am all for a bit of competition but surely the school needs to give others a chance to shine and not just choose the shining stars all the time. It's very de-motivating. I feel like I'll have to say something if she doesn't get chosen.
I'm not sure I can keep building her back up without some positive input from the school. Surely there needs to be a way of recognising, rewarding and motivating children like my DD?