( back history , poorly daughter )
Dad has been not very helpful at all, not visiting when she is really sick and not being helpful financially etc but there is loads and loads more.
His mum has probably met her twice in nearly 4 years and never rings either.
We had an argument this week over matinence which left him ignoring me when DD was in hospital.
Eventually they rang last night but it was his mum and he was in the background.
She was shouting at me saying I should be greatful for any money, for a child he does not see ( his choice to move miles away) told me to shut up and was verbally very rude.
He was in the background slamming cupboards.
Now I have a partner who is amazing and this seens to have highlighted some anger from ex.
He eventually took over the phone from his mum and the first setence he said is ...
We are going to bury that child and all you are angry over money.
I was very taken back yes she is sick do I think we will bury her any time soon ? NO
However I just do not think these were the right words !